Favorite Activities for Toddlers

Life seems a bit weird, uncertain and dare I say it a bit scary right now.  We are all adjusting to new routines and a new normal as we are called to socially distance ourselves from one another to help fight the spread of COVID-19.  It seems surreal, yet it isn't.   One thing I keep reminding myself during this time is that we are all going through this right now, we all have struggles while we adjust to the new changes in our lives and we are all doing the best we can in this situation! So give yourself some grace, say a prayer, feel the emotions your feeling and know you are not alone! 

So with all that being said I thought I would share a few of my favorite indoor activities/other ideas to help you pass the time and keep your little's engaged while we adjust to the changes around us!  At the end of the post I will share more links of blogs I follow for toddler/kiddo activities!  

Activity Ideas to Keep Little's Engaged:

Sensory Bins 
Sensory Bins are one of my all time favorite activities to do with my little guy thanks to The Busy Toddler.  Susie has tons of wonderful sensory ideas/activities on her blog that are great for keeping little minds engaged!  Basically a sensory bin is a large plastic box/bin filled with different materials or objects to help engages your little ones senses.  Example would be a large box of assorted beans with different types of measuring cups, or buckets that your little one could use to scoop up the beans in and dump them out etc.  I have several different sensory bins that I have created over the last few months all that have been inspired by Susie!  Below are a list of our favorites/the ones we currently have!

- Rainbow Rice Dino Dig - I dyed plain old white rice (following Susie's directions, linked here) and then placed it in a clear tupperware with plastic dinos, shovels and cups for my little guy to dig and play in!  He loved scooping up the dinos with the shovels and dumping the rice from cup to cup!

-Pom Pom Pool - I filled our outdoor water table with pom poms for our little guy to play with (dump, stir, etc.) inside once winter hit and it was to cold to play in water outside. I then added in buckets, shovels, and  small spoons for him to dump, stir and scoop up the pom poms!

-Bean and Noodle Construction Site - I filled a large plastic container with various dried beans and noodles and then added in my little guys favorite construction trucks and a few small cups to create his very own construction site.

-Water Play- Simply fill a plastic container with soapy water and some assorted cups (measuring cups, ladles, spoons) and let your kiddo enjoy dumping, splashing and mixing the water!  I ordered these a few weeks ago from Target for our water play, and they are a huge hit!  Another fun water activity we have done is a toy washing station via The Busy Toddler, linked here!

 

**For more fun sensory activities check out The Busy Toddler Site, linked here!

PlayDough 
Whip up some homemade playdough (I love this recipe from Fun Learning for Kids) and let your kids creativity go to work building and molding the dough.  I place the dough (wrapped in wax paper) in an air tight container with an assortment of small toys/cookie cutters/tools that my little guy can play with in the dough!  The cookie cutters are always a huge hit!  Switch out the cookie cutters each day to keep the box interesting and different, or try letter magnets!  Older kiddos can spell words out in the flattened playdough!  Or have your kiddo roll dough snakes to practice cutting with a plastic kid knife (dull).

Build a Road/Paper Tunnels
I got the idea for this from The Mama Notes, see her post here! Instead of taping the tunnels to my floor I decided to tape them to an old cardboard box and make roads.  we later decorated the cardboard with a parking lot for our cars and an airport for our airplanes.  This activity has been a major hit with my little dude.  It will hold his attention for 20-30 minutes but is also an activity that he will come back to over and over again!

FaceTime Loved Ones
This time of social distancing can feel isolating.  Thankfully for us we live in a day in age where technology is readily available!  Schedule time in your day to FaceTiming loved ones (grandparents, Aunts/Uncles, Cousins, Friends, Siblings).  Not only will this be a nice break in your day but it will be uplifting and help keep you connected with those you love during this time of social distancing.

Send Happy Mail- 
Brighten a loved ones day and stay connected during this time by sending "Happy Mail."  Have your little one paint/color/create cards to send out to Grandparents/Aunts/Cousins etc.  Set out paints, crayons, markers, sticks and paper and let your little's get creative.  It will be a fun craft for your kiddos and also brighten someone else's day when they receive their "Happy Mail."

A few other ideas, bake your favorite muffin/treat together if you have time, if you are working from home take a 15 min break and have a dance party to get some of the crazies out, take a short walk as a family for some fresh air, and just remember to embrace this time together.  Yes, it is hard, and can be scary but remember you are not alone in this alone.  

Great resource for Kiddo Activities - 

The Busy Toddler 

The Mama Notes 

Green Monster Muffins

 Anyone else sometimes struggle with getting their kids to eat veggies?  As my little guy has gotten older (and learned the word "No") I have found that getting him to eat his veggies can sometimes be an uphill battle (and he isn't a terribly picky eater)!

So I have started to look for creative, and sometimes sneaky ways to get him to eat more veggies ( I know I am not the only mom to do this)!  And with St Patrick's Day right around the corner, I decided to give our favorite muffin a little (green) facelift! 

These muffins are super easy to make, and I love the green color that the spinach gives them (side note, you can't taste the spinach at all) reminds me of Spring! Added bonus, my little dude loves them so it is a win win.   

Green Monster Muffins 

Makes 12 Large or 24 Mini Muffins 

Adapted from my Sugar Top Muffin Recipe

Ingredients:

Dry 

1 Cup Whole Flour 

1 Cup Oatmeal 

1/2 - 3/4 Cup Brown Sugar (use less if you don't want your muffins as sweet)

3/4 Teaspoon Baking Soda 

3/4 Teaspoon Baking Powder 

Wet

1 Beaten Egg 

3/4 Cup Milk 

1/3 Cup Cooking Oil (I typically use Canola Oil, but use whatever cooking oil you like!)

1 Handful Baby Spinach

Directions: 

1- Combine dry ingredients into one bowl and mix together. 

2- In a high speed blender combine wet ingredients and blend until well combined, and spinach is finely blended. 

3- Add wet ingredients to your dry ingredients, mix until combined. 

4- Line 12 muffin cups (or 24 mini muffin cups) with liners or spray with cooking spray.  Fill each muffin tin with batter and sprinkle with cinnamon sugar (if you like)

5- Bake in a 350 degree oven for 18-20 minutes 

Enjoy!

Mom Guilt

Mom guilt... a "feeling of guilt, doubt, anxiousness, or uncertainty experienced by mother's when they worry they are failing or falling short of expectations in some way (source)."

 

Any mom's out there feel like this? I know I do, and maybe more frequently then I care to admit.   It is something I never fully expected to experience and at times can seem crippling.  I find that I experience it in in several different ways... it is the small voice in my head saying I am not doing enough for my kiddo, or teaching him enough.  It comes in the form of tears when I feel as if I was to hard on my little one for not listening, or being naughty.  It comes as part of the comparison trap, where I constantly compare myself and my little dude to others and feel as if I am falling short of some invisible expectation or standard.

 

I'm telling you all this because if you are feeling this way, I want you to know you aren't alone and because I want to share with you a few tricks that have helped me battle my mom guilt.   So here they are, my little tips and tricks for battling the sometimes never ending Mom Guilt!

1. When the small voice in my head tells me I am not good enough or that I am not doing enough I remind myself that I am the best mother for my little guy.  I tell myself that I know my kid better then anyone and this helps ease the chatter in my head.  I remind myself that I am human, and I am not going to have everything figured out all the time.  That I am going to make mistakes, and that’s ok.  You know the best part, your son or daughter still loves you regardless, even when you mess up!   
2. When the tears start to flow because I feel like I have been to harsh on my little guy, I make sure to let him know that I still love him and that his actions (not listening, being naughty) don’t make me stop loving him. I make sure to talk to him about why he got in trouble and then follow it up with a hug and a kiss and a few extra snuggles.  Disciplining a toddler or any kiddo is hard especially on us mommy’s but just make sure your kiddo understands their punishment, what actions got them to said punishment and that this doesn’t change how much you love them. 
3. Finally the comparison trap!   When I feel like I am constantly comparing myself to other mom’s out there and start to feel as though  I am falling short I try to shut those thoughts down quickly.  I remind myself again that I am the best mom for my child and that I am doing the best I can!  And then I take a little break from social media (or try not to look at it as much).  Most of the time when I start comparing myself to others it is because I have been on social media to much.  I find taking little breaks from Social Media helps keep my thoughts in check and helps me not to compare myself to others mommy's out there!

I hope these little tips helped and remember you aren’t alone!  Being a mom is tough work, and we are all doing the best we can!